It's a techy Christmas!

Apparently my family thinks that I'm technologically savvy. It's not that I'm not TS, but I'm definitely not in the top percentile for TS performance if you know what I mean.

Most of my Christmas gifts involved technology - a MacBook Pro, Kindle, and Sony Blu-Ray/DVD player. Of course, I immediately became obsessed with all 3 devices.

The monstrous snowstorm that was supposed to hit the NE narrowly escaped my parents house. We only got about 2 inches, compared to the foot they were predicting the night before. THANK GOD!

Since my parents live in the middle of nowhere, I had little time to play with my technologic instruments. I did, however, have time to read 2-600 page books. I am ob-sessed with the trilogy by Stieg Larsson. (He is the author who wrote Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, etc.)

I hope you all had a great holiday with your families!

Other Holiday Movies

I cannot believe that I left these movies off of my favorite holiday movies list! I am so mad at myself! I used to watch both of these movies repeatedly (along with the other 5 listed previously), which probably drove my mother insane.

The Christmas Toy

I searched for years to find out the name of this movie. Every time I asked someone if they had watched this as a kid, they seriously thought that I was making this up. I may have had an active imagination as a child, but it wasn't this active!

The one woman action figure was so mean! She really did scare me.

The Nutcracker Ballet

I loved watching any interpretation of The Nutcracker, but it had to be a ballet. Every now and then I'd watch a figure skating version, but it just wasn't the same. If I didn't love to eat so much, I think that I could be a ballerina...

This one was probably my favorite and Mikhail Baryshnikov (of SATC fame) also happens play the prince in this version. (I bet y'all didn't know that before SATC, he was in ballet. He was and still is an amazing performer!)

I also used to watch this version... and this version... more times than I can count.

Chocolate Mint Brownie Cookies

This recipe yields about 3.5 dozen cookies. I have maybe a dozen left after the weekend. And I'm the only one eating them. Yikes!

Don't even question the deliciousness of this recipe. Just try it!

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* 1 1/2 cups (9 oz.) NESTLÉ® TOLL HOUSE® Semi-Sweet Chocolate Morsels, divided
* 1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
* 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
* 1/4 teaspoon salt
* 1/2 cup (1 stick) butter or margarine, softened
* 1/2 cup granulated sugar
* 1/4 cup packed brown sugar
* 1/2 teaspoon peppermint extract
* 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
* 2 large eggs
* 3/4 cup chopped nuts

MELT 3/4 cup morsels in small, heavy saucepan over lowest possible heat. When morsels begin to melt, remove from heat; stir. Return to heat for a few seconds at a time, stirring until smooth. Cool to room temperature.

COMBINE flour, baking soda and salt in small bowl. Beat butter, granulated sugar, brown sugar, peppermint extract and vanilla extract in large mixer bowl until creamy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in melted chocolate. Gradually beat in flour mixture. Stir in remaining morsels and nuts. Drop dough by rounded tablespoon onto ungreased baking sheets.

BAKE in preheated 350° F. oven for 8 to 12 minutes or until sides are set but centers are still soft. Let stand for 2 minutes; remove to wire racks to cool completely.

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I also had some Andes Mints handy, so I crushed up 5-6 of those and threw them into the mix. Perfect!

Subway Flatbread Breakfast Sammich

I love breakfast foods. I just usually do not eat them during the breakfast hours. Why? Because I very rarely eat breakfast.

While in VAB over the summer with Gina, we hit the Subway for some breakfast. At the time, breakfast at Subway was a new concept. Not so much anymore. (I think that Wendy's also has breakfast now.)

Anyways, I haven't had the SFBS since VAB. It was good when I had it there, but I have so many other options for breakfast in Wilmington that Subway never crosses my mind. But for some reason, I really wanted a SFBS yesterday. At 2 p.m. Alas, they do not serve breakfast all day.

I bet you know where I was at 8 a.m. today!

CCZ

I was mildly obsessed with Coke Zero from the day it came out.

While not a huge soda fan, some days I do crave the bubbly. Instead of reaching for the champagne, I go for the Coke Zero.

Well, one day, I was introduced to Cherry Coke Zero. I don't remember when, how, or why, nor do I question it. I just know that my love for CCZ runs deep.

As previously stated, I rarely drink soda. But when I do, it's CCZ all tha way!

Pez dispensers

I love Pez dispensers!

My best friend Megan sent me a gianormous package in the mail a week or so ago and in it was this Pez dispenser:

It came with grape and lemon candies. I almost instantly housed the grape, seeing as how I love anything purple. The lemon has yet to make it into the dispenser, but I think today is the day for those babies to migrate.

This dispenser also serves as lovely decor on my desk at work.

PPOTW: Unruly Children

Has it been a week since my last Pet Peeve posting? If it hasn't, oh well. If it has, YAY!

This week's pet peeve: Unruly Children

I really feel that people's parenting skills have fallen off the map over the past decade. The lack of parenting has resulted in the absolutely horrendous youth that fill the streets of the world.

In my opinion, parents these days are lazy and selfish. They are too concerned with how much money they are making, where they are going to travel to next, what kind of car they drive, who is hosting the next social event, etc. All of this "worrying" doesn't leave much time for parenting.

Where are your kids when you are at work for 16 hours a day? Where are your kids when you are out drinking at a couples event? Where are your kids when you spend 2 weeks in the south of France? Do you know the grades that your children are bringing home? Do you know what sports they play? Do you know what they're eating?

Dropping your kids off at the YMCA or their high school gymnasium with $5 in their pocket is not considered parenting.

Because you have been so lazy and selfish throughout your child's entire life, you have failed to instill the core values of respect and manners into these children.

If some of the children that I see/hear in this town were raised by my family, they would probably want to commit suicide. I am by no means saying that I had a rough childhood, but I am saying that I was raised to respect my elders (even if that elder was only 2-3 years older than I), treat others as you would like to be treated, and to always be polite. If I did something wrong, I was disciplined.

Yes, I sometimes have an attitude. Who doesn't? Yes, I sass. And that is what I'm known for. But that is because people and their children are so stupid these days! If I said/did something stupid, I would want someone to tell me. (That goes back to the whole "treat others how you want to be treated" thing.)

Maybe I have these views because I was raised in a military family. Or maybe I just have these views because I possess common sense. Call me crazy, but I think that children need to be spanked and disciplined and grounded. They need to attend etiquette classes and be taught manners. From day 1.

If your children are running around the house, yelling at you and not listening to you when you ask them to do something, then you have a serious problem. If they don't respect you, as their parent, then why should they be expected to respect the rest of the world's population?

Update: Good Luck Tiffany, er, Chuck?

You may or may not recall my previous post about my theory that the movie Good Luck Chuck is based [loosely] on my life. As six months have passed since that post, much updating is needed! I hope you are all as amused by these updates as I have been throughout the months.

1. Vegas Showboat - He is now married and with his wife, are expecting a baby boy in March. Aside from offering my congrats, I haven't heard much out of this one.

2. Redneck Riviera - He got married on September 11. (Who does that?!?! I mean really. What a horrible day. There are other Saturdays in September, ya know.) And while there are no babies to speak of yet, I'm fairly certain that they will make an appearance in the not too distant future. I haven't heard a peep out of this kid in a long, long time.

3. The Mexican - He went and got married at the courthouse and didn't tell anyone! His wife also had a baby in October and is the spitting image of The Mex. I speak to him (The Mexican, not the baby) on a weekly basis, as we play indoor volleyball together.

4. Beanstalk Boy - After hearing that his girlfriend was expecting, BB proposed. Of course, she said yes. I gather that she is far more excited about this than he is. While I'm sure that all of this would have come eventually, I feel that it happened a bit sooner than he would have liked. Such is life. Aside from a few outings at volleyball, I haven't seen much of this guy.

Now, you're probably all wondering the same thing I am: Who's next?

Honestly, I don't know. I have only dated 2 people in the last year. One will never get married and have kids (trust me on that one). We are actually very similar in so many ways, and I think that we would have worked well together, except for the fact that neither one of us wanted to bend in our views on marriage. So that was that.

The other guy I dated still has no interest in anyone but me. (I mean... can you blame him!?) We are the best of friends and hang out weekly. It's not that I don't want to date him; it's just not fair for me to date anyone seeing as how I barely have time to get 6 hours of sleep a night, let alone spend time with someone else.

As previously mentioned, the only dating I'll be doing over the next 2 years will be with my school books. I am such a lucky girl ;)

Bea Arthur, USMC

As many of you are probably already aware, Bea Arthur (aka Bernice Frankel) was previously enlisted in the Marine Reserves at Cherry Point, NC.

Read this article and be sure to watch the video. The woman cracks me up, even when she's not on GG!

Update: Hounddog

As promised, here is my review for the movie Hounddog:

This movie was not at all what I expected. It was somewhat slow at times, which I guess is ok since the movie is set in Alabama. (Come to find out, the movie was actually filmed about 30 minutes south of where I live currently.)

Anyways, the rape scene itself wasn't all that traumatic but the action itself did have a traumatic effect on Dakota's character (as it would with anyone). The whole storyline was just odd to me. Dakota's aunt came into town and wanted to take her back to live with her. The aunt slept with Dakota's father and didn't get along with D's grandmother. Snakes were everywhere. All Dakota's character wanted to do was see Elvis when he performed in concert in her town.

I really don't have much to say about this movie. It's one of those movies that I'm glad I rented instead of paying 10$ to see in the theaters.

And if I hear the song "Hounddog" one more time, I may have to hurt someone.

I think I have a problem...

I have far too many books on my "to read" list.

I blame this ever expanding list on school. I simply do not have the time and energy to concentrate on non-scholastic books while taking classes. While I do read some books for work, they're hardly entertaining and can't even come close to dipping their pages in the "to do" pond.

Also, I think that I am getting a Kindle for Christmas.

My step-mom asked if I'd like one and after much thought, I think that I'd get a lot of use out of it! Especially when traveling. While I will not download the travel guides to the Kindle, this machine will definitely cut back on the number of pleasure books that I normally cart around. I was having issues justifying bringing 5+ books to South Africa with me in June. Now I don't have to! :)

This will also make book buying much easier, faster, and cheaper. Have you seen the prices of books on amazon.com!? The printed books are already decently priced, but the e-books are even cheaper! My wallet will thank me. And my bookshelves will thank me for not stuffing them full like a Thanksgiving turkey.

Had I had to make the decision to purchase an electronic reader, I honestly would not know which one to choose. Everywhere I go, I hear and see of a new device. Do any of you have an e-reader? Which model is it and what are your thoughts?

Top 5 Holiday Movies

I have compiled a list of my personal top 5 holiday movies. Since I am somewhat of a movie fanatic (even though I don't have time to see a lot of the newer ones) and absolutely cannot be forced to choose a #1, I have listed them in no particular order.

Yogi's First Christmas

I used to watch this movie non-stop when I was a kid and it drove my mom nuts! She's still mad at me for that... Kids these days just don't know what good movies are all about!

Rudolph, the Red Nosed Reindeer

This is the original claymation version, with Burl Ives. My grandmother and I would sit in the living room and watch this daily during the holiday season, from a VHS that my uncle taped from the original showing years before.

Home Alone

My mom took me to see the original movie in the theaters. All I remember is both of us laughing so hard that we had tears rolling down our cheeks. (Yes, my crying from laughter started at a young age. I get it from mom.)

Elf

My best friend and I quote this movie year round. It's one of those movies that just asks for it! I don't think I saw this movie until she made me sit down and watch it. Now it's a holiday staple. (I also love any chance to watch Will Ferrell. I will watch any movie he is in, regardless of how horrible the reviews are. He has the best one-liners!)

Babes in Toyland

This movie stars Annette Funicello and Tommy Sands. I don't know why I was/am so obsessed with this movie, but I am. I made mom watch it with me last year and she thought I was nuts.

I know what you're thinking. How could I not name classics such as It's a Wonderful Life and The Christmas Story?! While I do enjoy those movies, something about them just didn't strike me as entertaining. I will watch them if they're on TV, but I certainly don't own them on DVD.

What are some of your favorite holiday movies?

Love Actually

The other night, I watched one of my many favorite "Christmas" movies - Love Actually. Aside from an extremely long list of former A-list actors, it makes me laugh hysterically.

I am a fan of watching this movie year round, even though it takes place during the holiday season. I'll take any excuse to stare at Hugh Grant for a couple of hours.

Cinema Update

My last final was turned in on Monday evening. Here it is Friday and I'm already bored with life. I have read one 400 page book and moved on to another, watched 6 movies, and had one evening of indoor volleyball. And my Friday evening has yet to begin!

I thought I would write a short post about the newly released to DVD movies that I rented this week.

The first was Abandoned with the late Brittany Murphy.

This movie also stars Dean Cain, which I did not know at the time of rental but found myself laughing at during one of the first scenes. (I seriously thought he only did Lifetime movies these days.) Much to my dismay, this movie did belong on the Lifetime network. The plot had good intentions, but the acting was mediocre and the directing was horrible. I had heard that the movie received bad reviews, and now I know why. But at least I can say that I saw Brittany Murphy's last movie.

I also watched Remember Me, starring Robert Pattinson. Chris Cooper was also in this movie, and played the roll of a cop (surprise, surprise).

I had been told by a few people that this movie was excellent, even though it didn't last long in theaters. I was hesitant to see it at first because I absolutely cannot stand RP and all the hype that surrounds him. However, I found this movie to be excellent! I will not give anything away, but there is a twist at the end that had me in tears. Such a great movie.

Sidenote: I actually watched the second movie from my phone. Kinda. I had downloaded it to my Droid, purchased an HDMI cable, and hooked that bad boy up to my TV. The clarity was excellent. The only downside was that every time I received an email or text message, the sound that my phone played was also played through my TV. It made me laugh at first, and then I got mad at everyone who kept texting me. (I guess my unresponsiveness got to them after a while, because the texts eventually stopped.)

Tonight, I plan to watch Hounddog, starring Dakota Fanning. If you'll recall, this is the movie where Dakota's character is raped. Apparently the scene is so graphic that this movie was on limited release and only showing at certain theaters. My theater was not one of those selected. (Shocking, I know.)

Another sidenote: Robin Wright (formerly Penn) is also in Hounddog. I was once on a plane with her and her family (Sean Penn and 2 children) from LAX to Hawaii. I know you all were just dying to acquire that knowledge.

I'll be sure to write another post on my thoughts about this movie. Have you seen any good movies lately that are worth sharing?

South'n France

Ok, so I know that I've already posted 2 blogs today but I'm a little bored (and also very behind with the knowledge that I need to share with my readers).

For those of you in the Wilmington area, be sure to check out South'n France on Orange Street. For those of you not in the Wilmington area, you can check them out online! This fabulous creation of a store blends southern tradition with French creations in the form of bon bons.

Gracious golly me, I have died and gone to heaven! I love France and I love chocolate. It's like we were meant to be.

I'M FREE!

FINALS ARE OVER!

I am so giddily excited that I just don't know what to do with myself!

Actually, that's a lie. I know exactly what I'm going to do - READ!

I have put my "for fun" reading life on hold since late August so that I could devote all of my time to my studies. I submitted my last final - an online exam and project - last night around 7 p.m. I went home and immediately started reading Tucker Max's Assholes Finish First. I figured that I would lightly delve back into the world of pleasure reading by starting with this book.

After this book, I plan to finally finish Eat, Pray, Love and then move on to Nelson Mandela's A Long Walk to Freedom. EPL has been half read since August; Mandela is going to be a tough and lengthy read. At some point, I also need to do research for my vacation to South Africa in June. (More details about that in another post.)

Even after classes are done, there is still so much to do!

Pet Peeve of the Week: Overly Cheery People

I've decided to start a weekly rant about a selected pet peeve of mine. If you know me at all, you know that I have many. If you do now know me, please let me preface this series of rants by saying the following:

I am not a negative person. I surround myself with only the most positive people and influences. I do feel, however, that there are little ticks that annoy everyone. I am using this as a forum to voice said annoyances. Feel free to add your thoughts as well!

This week's pet peeve: overly cheery people

Again, I am not a pessimistic/sad/depressed person. I just don't like it when people get all up in my face with cheer. Seeing as how the holiday season is upon us, this cheer is unfortunately everywhere I turn. Are these people not happy every other season of the year? I wonder.

It also drives me insane when I log into Facebook to find people who say the same thing on a daily basis. "I love my husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/child!" or "I have the best husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/child!"

Obviously, you love your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/child - otherwise you wouldn't be with that person! It technically is their "job" to make you happy. So why on Earth do you feel the need to publicize that to all of your FB friends?!

It's like Chris Rock said in one of his skits, "...people are always saying they do things that they're supposed to do. 'I take care of my kids, I take care of my kids.' Fool - you're supposed to take care of your kids! You want a cookie?!"

That's what those statuses remind me of. They also kind of make me want to vomit.

Mr. Fish, Did you die?!

I find it funny, yet odd, that people I used to talk to on an almost daily basis for dozens of years seem to have fallen off of the face of the Earth.

I understand that everyone has their own separate lives, and within those lives are infinite amounts of chaos. What I don't understand, however, is how someone can blatantly choose to ignore someone who is [supposedly] your best friend. Sure, you get wrapped up in a relationship or your parents get sick or your job starts to become more demanding. I get it. We all go through these things at some point in our lives, sometimes even simultaneously... but we somehow manage to maintain relationships.

They say, of course (whoever "they" is), that we only work to maintain the relationships that we choose to keep. Which leads me to this: How can a person choose one friend over the other?

For example, you choose your boyfriend over your best friend. Isn't there a way to have harmony in your world so that you can hang out with your boyfriend and your best friend? Maybe not together at the same time, but perhaps on alternating nights or only on Wednesdays, etc.? Are you saying that your best friend is no longer valuable enough to you, and that he/she does not deserve your free time? Are you saying that your significant other has taken the place of a best friend? Are best friends replaceable?

Maybe I'm missing something. I don't know. But last I checked, I needed an active social life outside of my dating life. If I hung around only my boyfriend (assuming I have one) 24/7, I would literally go insane. I need some estrogen. I need some wine. I need some gossip. Men don't offer that. Unless, of course, they're gay... in which case I'd hang out with them instead of my girlfriends. (But honestly, my gay friends are in my girlfriends category. I'm better friends with them than I am most of my girl friends.)

There are some people I've known since middle school, who are happily married with multiple children. I talk to them on a regular basis, and I always have. But then there are people I've known only since college, who have boyfriends they live with, who work right down the street from me, who I only hear from when I initiate conversation. Or when they hear gossip about me (it's a small town, and usually full of lies). Or when they literally run into me in a store.

I know that losing friends is part of growing up. I understand that they were in your life at one time for a reason, and they have left your life for a different reason. I know that they are opening a spot for a "better" person to come along and fill. But I'd still like to know why.

too cute not to share

I love receiving mail. Both email and snail mail, but especially snail mail. Mom is great at making her own cards and sending them my way for a good laugh or "Awwww." The other day, I checked the mailbox and found a card from mom. The envelope was very fun - white with bright blue and green circles on it. I excitedly tore open the envelope and removed a card with this picture on the front:

Inside: I meditate, I do yoga, I chant... And I
still want to smack someone!

If she didn't hit the nail on the head with that one, then I don't know what will!

Beach2Battleship

Today my good friend Adam and I watched our other good friend, Mark, compete in the Beach2Battleship half ironman. We met up with his wife, Adrienne, and their daughter, Taylor, early this morning to catch the first leg of the race - the swim. (You can see him in the picture above. He's totally visible. Open your eyes!) After that we headed to the transition area where we saw Mark run from the end of his swim to the transition area where he had to locate his bike in the sea of metal and wheels. He came around the corner, running like the most excited child on Christmas Day. After swimming 2.5 miles. (I personally would have thrown in the towel at about 100 meters.) The guy is always so full of energy and enthusiasm and he never ceases to amaze me with all that he does.

Adam and I didn't make it downtown to see the run portion of the race, but Adrienne did tell me that Mark completed the entire half ironman in 6 hours and 50 minutes!!! The guy is amazing, as is everyone else who competed in this race.

He absolutely motivated me to get out and run. But I have to finish watching Julie & Julia first.

Cacaolat Cookies

I am addicted to these cookies. I want to call them wafers, but they're really not. They are 2 cookie-like wafers with a chocolatey paste between them.

I discovered a similar product while in France but I can't remember the name of it so I can't show you. The wafers were shaped like pieces of toast. The toast was actually a little toasty man who smiled! It was delicious and cheery.

I am in love with European sweets - chocolate, pastry, bread (ok, so that's not sweet but you get the point)... If I lived there, I'd probably weigh 200 lbs. instead of my 150.

Oh how I long to be back in France. Sigh.

Due Date

I went to see Due Date yesterday, starring Robert Downey Jr. and Zach Galifianakis.

While it wasn't as funny as The Hangover, I do enjoy Zach G. and will watch almost any movie he is in. His walk and dog make the movie. Seriously.

cancer

Just yesterday I was talking to a couple of coworkers about lung cancer. I don't even remember how the subject was brought up. I actually ended up telling them a story about a woman who got lung cancer due to second hand smoke; she had never picked up a cigarette in her life. Well, then today, I stumbled upon this article. Coincidence? I think not.

I'm not one to tell people how to live their lives. Do what you want. To each his own. Only you can be responsible for your own actions. Blah, blah, blah. I will, however, tell you that I have seen first hand what cancer can do not only to an individual, but also to a family. It is not pretty and I do not wish any sort of cancer upon anyone - not even my worst enemy.

I urge all of you to pay attention to your body. You know your body better than any doctor. After all, you're the only one around you all day, every day! If you don't feel well, rest. If you continue to not feel well, go to the doctor. Most of us are so busy these days that we brush aside our health. Please don't. If you wait too long, it may be too late.

Paranormal Activity 2

Well, I finally went to see Paranormal Activity 2. Or rather, it was finally released into theaters. I feel like I've been waiting years to see this movie, but it's really only been a week or so.

As you recall, I saw the original PA last weekend. We were going to see PA2 at midnight, but then found out that they had a 10 p.m. show. SOLD. (After all, we are old and require at least 8 hours of sleep per night.)

I peed twice before the movie and didn't drink or eat during it because I didn't want to have to get up and leave! While I expected more from the movie, I still enjoyed it. It has a lot of the same "actions" as the first movie so it's not like there's anything new to see in that department. I really liked how they tied it into the first movie though. It explains everything! And I cannot wait to see what they do with the third, which is being filmed in Japan so you know it's going to scare me half to death.

All in all, I give it two thumbs up. I can't wait to hear what everyone else has to say about it!

Punkins!

Last weekend, Kristi and I went to the white church and purchased pumpkins for carving. (White as in that's the color of the exterior of the church, not as in that's the color of the people who go there.) We only spent 30 minutes searching for the perfect carving pumpkins; we budgeted an hour. Then we went to the UNCW women's volleyball match to watch an atrocious spectacle but I won't get started on that sour story.

It took another hour to clean out the pumpkins - my least favorite part. We both had to draw our own designs and transfer them so that took some time as well. Kristi chose a whale tale, similar to a drawing done by her favorite artist, Wyland. I chose a skull and crossbones with a bow (which I imagine being pink).

In my opinion, both turned out lovely:

Kristi had purchased last year at Walmart these handy dandy electronic pumpkin carvers. They made carving so much easier and less painful :)

After the punkin festivities, we decided to make it an official fall day and have a bonfire! The fire lasted a couple of hours and we had no problems staring into it for that period of time. It was so relaxing.

Here is a photo of Carter taking in the sights and keeping his little nose warm:

THEN we decided to put the feather in the fall hat by watching Paranormal Activity. I had never seen it and Kristi hadn't seen it since it was in theaters. I figured that since we had planned to go see PA2 with some of her coworkers, that I should probably see the first one so I know what I'm in for. I must say that it wasn't as scary as I thought it would be, but my heart rate definitely increased. It wasn't gory or gross, but it did allow for your imagination to wander. And that is the worst part. Because you never know who or what was in your house before you.

Lo siento.

Holy cow.

I just realized that I haven't uploaded a blog post in almost 3 weeks! My sincere apologies to those readers whose lives hang on the edge of a cliff waiting for my blog updates.

As most of you know, I went on a 10 day vacation to the FL Keys with my good friend Kristi. Before I could leave, however, I had to knock out 5 exams and 7 projects/homework assignments for class. Working full time and going back to school full time sounds lovely, doesn't it?!

Anyways, because I had all of that to do, in addition to prepping my office for my departure, I didn't post before I left. And I haven't posted since we returned because I've been busy adjusting to being back in reality. It took me 4 days to catch up on things at work. I've only had one day of classes due to Fall Break, so I'm still not in the swing of things in that department.

Oh, and my suitcase has thrown up all over my bedroom floor. The nerve.

But, I promise that I will post about our adventures sometime soon. And when I say soon I mean before the year ends :)

Operation Salsa Drop

"Operation Salsa Drop has been formed by Jay and Amy Muxworthy, owners of Flaming Amy's Burrito Barn and Flaming Amy's Bowl of Wilmington, North Carolina. They intend to sell retail shelf stable versions of their salsas in order to send the same salsas to the troops in Afghanistan and Iraq free of charge."

Please check out their website for more information. Soldiers like salsa too!

Banzai the traveling feline

I dragged my suitcase out of the storage closet the other day to pack for my vacation. Banzai decided that I didn't need to take clothes; all I need is a feline.

rats with wings

My best friend Megan lovingly refers to seagulls (or any type of bird for that matter) as "rats with wings." I must say that after years of thought, I thoroughly agree with that statement. Not only do they look dirty, but I think that they really are dirty. They rummage around in trashcans, eat food out of stupid tourists' hands, and squawk like a dying beast.

For some reason, tourists at the beach are fascinated by these birds. (I am not amused. I am also deathly afraid that one will poop on my head.) Tourists cheerily feed seagulls Cheetos from their fingers and take pictures of these dirty things swarming around their children. I'm waiting for one of these birds to fly away with someone's finger as their snack. That'll teach em!

No matter where I am on the beach, these guys always seem to find me. Case in point... my view today:

Seagulls are really just of no benefit to society. And it is illegal to intentionally murder a seagull... so I get really excited when I see one as road kill :)

My Current [Food] Obsession

I present to you my current food obsession.

I often get in moods where all I want to eat are a few certain foods for months at a time. Kristi often does this with sammiches; I do this with candy.

My Milk Dud kick has lasted all summer and it shows no signs of letting up any time soon.

We went to Costco the other day in search of items for our vacation. Milk Duds were on the shopping list. Did we find them? No, of course not! Because that was the one item I wanted (aside from Sugar Free Red Bull, which we did find in large quantities).

Now I must brave the insanity that is WalMart and purchase large quantities of Milk Duds. Because you know, they don't sell them in Key West.

Eat, Pray, Love - Part 1 (India)

Over the Labor Day holiday (read: when procrastination set in), I was finally able to pick up one of the books that I've been itching to read for years: Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert. As I'm sure you are all aware, this book has recently been made into a movie starring Julia Roberts. You should all also be aware of my refusal to see a movie before I read the book. I do believe that this movie was released well over a month ago, and to my knowledge it's still showing in theaters. At the rate I'm going with this novel, I may just be able to catch Julia on the big screen (although I don't feel as though it is mandatory for this novel).

This book is split into three sections based on the author's travels to Italy, India, and Indonesia. She writes of her revelations and experiences during her journeys. I knew from the get-go that I would adore this book because not only do I adore traveling, but all I do while I'm traveling is immerse myself in the culture and meditate about my life. (You know, exactly the same thing Elizabeth Gilbert does! Only she's much better at verbalizing it.)

Of course, reading this book was kind of like reading the writing on my soul and mind. I've expressed some of these thoughts before, but they are listed again based on some quotes that I've found in this novel. Please read below and laugh, cry, argue, and enjoy!

This is probably my favorite quote thus far in the book, and is stated before Elizabeth leaves for her trip to Italy: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it's what you want before you commit." She was very unhappy in her marriage and felt that society (and her husband) were pressuring her into something that she didn't want - a baby. I, of course, can relate. Everyone is settling down, getting married, and having kids. While this isn't direct pressure, it is indirectly saying to single people everywhere: reproduce and follow others' examples. I want to do none of that. Everyone says I'll change my mind. I won't. I don't want to. Don't force me.

Speaking of "examples," EG quoted The Bhagavad Gita, an ancient Indian yogic text: "It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of someone else's life with perfection." Now who nailed that one on the head!? (That quote also reminds me of another one of my favorites from Ralph Waldo Emerson: "Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.") If I need to explain that quote to y'all based on what I said in the paragraph above, then you have issues...

...which leads me to another revelation EG had in her book. When discussing marriage and life with her mother, EG realized that she did not have to be "stuck" in her marriage, or anything else in her life for that matter. She asked herself, "...What are my choices to be? What do I believe that I deserve in this life? Where can I accept sacrifice, and where can I not?" (I really do think that EG and I were friends in a past life, although I, of course, was the more mature friend. I say this only because it took her to the age of 31 to ask herself these questions; I've been asking myself these questions since I was 13.) If you haven't pondered these questions for a few minutes and you're over the age of 25, I highly suggest that you do. You'll be a stronger person because of it.

So, as you lay in bed tonight and think about absolutely nothing but how wise I am and how my blog just completely changes your life, also think about this: What do I deserve in this life?

Scientific "theories"

I saw a bumper sticker on student's car today that read: Evolution is a theory, just like relativity.

I literally said, "REALLY!?!" aloud for all to hear.

One would think that since this bumper sticker owner is in college that they are somewhat educated, albeit probably liberal. But being the scientist that I am, I must argue with this bumper sticker and its owner. Not only is evolution a proven scientific "theory," but so is relativity. These two confirmed events were only coined as theories because at the time of discovery (you know, before TV and the internet, which I'm sure kids these days couldn't even fathom), they could not be proven. Through many experiments and much research across many decades, both evolution and relativity were confirmed. I do believe that folks even won Nobel Prizes for some of their discoveries. Imagine that!

FYI - all scientific discoveries are considered theories until they are proven facts. Sometimes, the "theory" part of a statement/discovery sticks because the ideas spread so rapidly.

If you don't believe me, then head on down to the library and do some research. Like, using books. And another FYI - google.com is not a book.

Beer me!

Today in my microeconomics class, the professor asked for an example of a "good" beer for use in one of his on the spot made up graphs. In my head, I'm thinking, "Ok, what about an IPA." Until one of the 18 year olds yells out, "Corona!" (She was so proud and excited about her answer too! Almost as if to say, "I can afford better beer than everyone else in here." You know, because Corona is so expensive.)

Anyways, her response made me think about a few things...

1. I was so fortunate in college to have parents who were able to provide for me. While they did not provide me with a lot of extra spending money, they were able to provide me with money to attend school, pay rent and utilities, and to eat. They also paid for my car payments, insurance, and cell phone bill - but only while I was enrolled in classes. If I wanted money to spend on my sorority, vacations, going out, drinking, etc., then I was expected to earn that money with a part time job. The only time I did not have a job in college was during my freshman year (I had to get acclimated, you know). But I will say that prior to that year in college, I held 3 jobs, attended high school honors/AP classes, and played volleyball and basketball year round. I also went home often during my freshman year and worked almost every waking hour at the vet's office that I so loved. (My younger brother, on the other hand, is a completely different story. To this day, the kid has only worked maybe 20 days in his entire life. Although he was required to cut the grass weekly once he was "of age.")

2. I am still so fortunate now to not only have a job, but have a job with a reputable company that I so adore. I've been very blessed in the job arena since graduating from college. I have always had a prospect or job waiting for me, no matter which city I chose to live in. When I made my final move from D.C. back to Wilmington, my old boss always said that I'd have a job in D.C. no matter when I chose to come back (if at all, which I won't, but it's a nice gesture). People like that make me believe them when they say that I'm a dedicated and passionate worker. I don't see it some days; I just think of it as getting the job done. I like to think that I have a good work ethic, but I don't really see it until someone else points it out to me.

3. With all that being said, I think credit is due to my parents. Mainly my mom for keeping us all so grounded. Since my parents divorced when I was so young, and since I spent most of my free time with my mom, one would think that I'd grow up to be damaged and somehow dysfunctional. But I'm not. My mom provided me with a completely normal and loving environment growing up, and my dad was still 100% involved in my life. My grandparents were also a heavy influence, as I spent almost every weekend and summer at their house. This is how I acquired my work ethic and love of reading, nature, and science. Suffice it to say, my grandparents are just as important to me as my parents.

You're probably wondering how I could get to thinking about all that from the mention of Corona, and I'll attempt to explain it as best as I can...

First I got to thinking about the beer I drink now and then I pressed the rewind button in an attempt to remember what I drank in college. That then got me to thinking about how my experiences in college were probably so different from kids' experiences now, and how those experiences probably stemmed from the way I was raised. (Aside: I feel that kids these days have absolutely no discipline or self worth, and that's due to the lack of parenting. I honestly feel that my generation was the last to truly be raised correctly, and even a few of those slipped through the cracks. Whatever we're doing now to raise kids just isn't working.) This then transgressed to thinking about my family, our ethics and morals, and expectations out of life.

And then came this blog post.

P.S. - I just realized a funny fact! And yes, I literally laughed out loud... my microeconomics professor asked about beer. His last name is Beer. HAHA!

Mother's Wisdom

When I was a kid, my mom would sometimes remind me, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then you shouldn't say anything at all."

I have tried to carry this motto into my adulthood but from time to time, it just doesn't work too well for me. Sometimes people just need to be told how dumb they are!

Am I wrong here?

Yeah, I didn't think so.

Found: Hairdresser

A small miracle has occurred... I have found a new hairdresser - a hairdresser that I actually like!

Kristi at Harbour Club Day Spa & Salon was recommended to me by multiple friends, without any prompting from me or others. (Another stylist at the same salon came highly recommended, so I figured this place was a safe bet.) It turns out that Kristi and I have a few mutual friends in common, and she also knows my boss. I would say that it's a small world, but we all know that this town really is small.

Kristi gave me a great trim and even gave me some pointers for styling my bangs. I can just never seem to get those right! She also dried and styled my hair faster than anyone I've ever encountered. My appointment was at 5 p.m. and I was out of there by 6. That is absolutely unheard of! But it worked perfectly for me since I had a girls night planned that involved yummy chicken curry and wine :)

Aside: Recall that back in June, I had written that my hairdresser, Andrea, was about to move to San Diego. (She's doing fabulous and loves it there, by the way!) I am so glad that I've found someone to replace Andrea, although no one can really replace her.

26 hours in a day

If there were at least 2 more hours in each day, I think the probability of me surviving the next 3 months would exponentially increase.

When I was in undergrad, I never understood how people would work full time AND attend classes on a full time basis (some also tended to families). Now that I have become one of those crazy adults, I still don't understand how people do it. I've only made it through one full week of classes and I'm not quite sure how I'm still functioning.

I have somehow managed to [almost] close out everything at my soon to be "old" job, get things in order for my "new" job, attend 3 classes on campus, "attend" one class online, do homework and read for said classes, work out, and play volleyball. Phew.

Notice that I didn't mention sleep. That's because I haven't gotten any. (I also didn't mention showering or eating, but rest assured that those tasks are being taken care of.) Between working 60-70 hour weeks and keeping up with schoolwork, there just isn't time to sleep. And I love to sleep.

Last Saturday, I had to attend a board meeting for work for close to 7 hours. I barely had time to get home, shower, change clothes, and get my butt across town for a bartending gig. I attempted to meet some friends for a few drinks downtown, but barely made it through one. I collapsed into bed around 1 a.m. and slept until noon on Sunday. WHO DOES THAT?!?! Apparently, I needed the sleep. But I haven't slept much since then. WHO AM I!??!

School really isn't the issue. I can easily make time to study on my lunch break, before bed, or even during class. It's work that's killing me. A normal work week consists of 40 hours. But because our staff is so small, and because events season is starting again, and because I'm attempting to tie up loose ends before I leave, I have been working 60-70 hour weeks. For those of you who know me well, you know that I am absolutely miserable doing this. For those of you who don't know me well, I will explain to you why...

- working that much does not allow me time to work out

- nor does it allow me time to sleep

- nor does it allow me time to keep my life in order (read: my closet tends to throw up all over my room)

- the people I work with drive me insane

Thankfully, I work half a day tomorrow (Friday), a full day on Monday, and half a day on Tuesday. That's roughly 20 hours of time I have to spend in my office with a staff that has slowly started to drain my soul. No no, I'm not counting down or anything.

However, I will say that last week was a bit out of character for me. I was house/dog sitting; I had to work 2 events for work; and I had a bartending job that isn't normal for me. So I was veering away from my usual routine. Even if I veer away the tiniest bit from that routine, my whole week is thrown off.

Anyways, this week has been somewhat more normal. My sleep schedule is almost back to normal although I still don't think I'm getting enough. I'm just ready for my new job to start so I can kick these work outs up into high gear.

20 more hours, 20 more hours, 20 more hours...

Sassy & Single

This article made me laugh. And not because it sounds like something I would do. But because these women sound like they could be two of my friends.

While they bring information to light that some may be unaware of, I [sadly] have already figured this out. Sometimes I'm just too smart for my own good. :)

This article also made me further realize that I have absolutely no desire to date. Anyone. Period. For a long time.

Call me broken, scarred, bruised - whatever you want. But that isn't the case. Apparently some think that I'm abnormal because I'm completely content not being in a relationship. I'm sorry, but last I checked, that was called "being comfortable with myself."

It amazes me how some of my friends long to be in a relationship and "with" someone. We all have those friends who bounce from relationship to relationship, regardless of whether or not it's in their best interest. These people are no weaker than I am; I have simply chosen to live my life differently.

I have found that I am:

1. comfortable enough with myself to be alone

2. too completely consumed with my career and school to worry about someone else

3. having too much fun being single (i.e. able to do what I want, when I want)

I don't know what my future holds so I really try not to say things like "I don't ever want to get married." (Unfortunately, I misplaced my crystal ball in 1993 and therefore lost my ability to look into the future.) I'm simply saying that for the next 5 to 10 years, I am completely content continuing as I always have: alone.

Reality Is Sinking In

HOLY CRAP.

I quit my job.

Granted, it was a week ago, but it's finally sinking in. I wish I could tell some glamorous story as to why I quit my job, but I really can't. I wish I could say that I've quit so that I can travel the world for a year, or so that I can go back to school for my Ph.D, or so that I can move to The Keys to work in a dive shop under every tourist's beck and call. But alas, I cannot.

I am simply moving to another department on campus. However, I am VERY comfortable with my current job. I have molded it the way I want it and completely reorganized everything in that office. All that is left to do is maintain it. Maintenance bores me. Hence, the job search and me stepping outside of my comfort zone.

I would randomly apply for jobs here and there, mainly at the suggestion of a co-worker. The job that I accepted and will start September 1 had completely fallen off of my radar by the time I was called for an interview.

I was interviewed on a Thursday morning. My boss was called Friday morning for a reference. The woman conducting the interview was on vacation the following week. I was offered the position the next Monday and I accepted on Tuesday. I told my boss the following Monday, giving him over 3.5 weeks of notice (which he greatly appreciated). The posting to find my replacement was posted online today (and yes, I wrote it).

Now, the reason I say it's just now finally sinking in is this: I have an incredible amount of work to do to prepare my replacement for the daily tasks of my job. I thought a month would be plenty of time to work the 6 events that we have planned, conduct my normal daily duties, plan a BOD meeting, and compose a job manual for my position. Boy was I wrong!

Per usual, random "emergencies" keep popping up on an almost hourly basis which tears me away from my daily tasks which in turn tears me away from composing the job manual.

On top of all of this, my full time classes start on Wednesday. What on Earth was I thinking?!?!

Clearly, I am Superwoman.

The Rat Race

Holy cow! Has it really been 2 weeks since my last post?! Oh how time flies...

As I was leisurely driving to work this morning (read: going the speed limit), there were multiple cars who sped by me at least 15 mph faster than the rest of the vehicles on the road. But guess what? I met up with them again - at the stoplight. Is it really necessary to go 60 mph on a little country road, just to sit at a stop light with everyone whom you passed 5 seconds ago?

Call me crazy, but I am in no rush to get to work in the mornings.

organ donation

Do me a favor and read this article. Do you think that accused killers should be eligible to receive organ transplants? What about people who have ruined their organs in an attempt to commit suicide?

I do believe in equality for everyone. However, I do not feel that someone who has taken a life, in addition to attempting to take their own, should be "allowed" to receive a life saving organ transplant. I mean, this guy swallowed rat poison so he obviously did not want to live.

It's people like this who deserve to receive organs. I may be partial to this one because this is my cousin, but she's just one example of a life worth saving.

I personally am an organ donor. I really don't see the point in keeping your organs inside your body if you're just going to be buried/cremated. The doctors are not going to "kill" you just because they see the organ donor designation on your driver's license. Don't be selfish.

Inception

Rachael was in town over the weekend and suggested we go see Inception one afternoon. Oh sure, twist my arm.

I also wanted to see this movie, as I had heard from multiple people - most of whom cannot stand to sit through a 2 hour movie, let alone a 2.5 hour movie - that this was an amazing movie. I did some research into the theme/summary of the movie and was thoroughly confused. I then accepted the fact that I was going to have to rely on other people's opinions and just go into this movie blind. So I did. And the movie was phenomenal.

The acting was amazing. The directing and production was even more amazing. The special effects looked real and not computerized. The complexity of the characters and the plot is mind blowing. Christopher Nolan is a genius. I can't even imagine what goes on inside his head when creating these movies, let alone when writing the script. I really cannot put into words the experience that this movie offers to the viewers. You're just going to have to go see for yourself!

An aside: I really don't understand all the fuss about Leonardo DiCaprio. I mean, he is a great actor and some of my favorite movies have him as the lead character, but I just do not find him attractive. At all. He does, however, choose excellent movie rolls.

I do believe that Inception raked in over 70$ million opening weekend; I'm sure it was close to that again this past weekend. I gladly contributed my 7$ (hello, matinée!) and will probably contribute at least another 10$. Maybe even 20$ if I can find multiple people to attend.

phone [over]use

It really drives me crazy when a person is constantly on his/her phone. I understand that technology is important these days, and I know that texting and/or emailing is one of the easiest ways for people to stay in touch with each other. I get it. I really do. But I do not understand how an individual can ignore the other people they are with (say, at dinner) and just sit and text the entire time. Not only is that rude, but it's disrespectful. If you'd rather be talking to someone else, then just stay home and talk to them. Or better yet, go spend time with whoever you're texting!

I personally love it when I "forget" my phone and am without it for a few hours. My favorite is actually when I'm in Europe and am without phone for weeks at a time. I don't even like to get on a computer when I'm over there. Yes, I prefer to be completely detached from all forms of technology.

For those of you who are reading this and are constantly on your phone, please do all of us who are able to leave our phones in our purses a favor: put the phone down. At least while you're with us.

attack of the whales

I like to tell people that I'm a marine biologist. Because really, that's what I got my degree in at university. I just leave out the fact that I'm not a practicing marine biologist.

Naturally, all of the news stories regarding whales and sharks recently has been front page news in my life.

A humpback whale was spotted in Ocean City, MD back in June. I find this odd.



A southern right whale was recently seen breaching and landed on a sailboat off the coast of South Africa. Now that is really weird.



I hope they have good insurance.

Kefi's

Every day on my way off of the island, I drive past Kefi. And every morning I am amazed at the mass of people sitting outside on the patio enjoying breakfast. From a bar.

The only time I have ever been to Kefi's is for the occasional Machine Gun show or Stache Bash celebration.

I have never eaten breakfast at Kefi's (or at any bar, for that matter), nor have I met anyone in town who has eaten breakfast at this establishment. If you have, or if you know someone who has, please tell me the obsession with this spot!

writing utensils

When writing at work, I often write with a natural pencil.

Those with the white erasers are my favorite.



But sometimes I can't find them so I have to make due with the pink eraser natural pencils.



I always get really excited when I find an excellent writing utensil. Normally, I will take notes, etc. with a natural pencil and sign documents, etc. with a kick ass pen. I don't know what it is about the natural pencils that appeals to me but I won't use a pencil unless it's natural. Or mechanical. But it has to be a Bic.



I am now taking suggestions for kick ass pens. No fine points, please.

Chick fil A breakfast

I love Chick fil A! I could eat there at any hour of the day and fill my belly with something delicious.

However, my favorite meal to indulge in while at the CFA is breakfast. Specifically, the chicken biscuit.



I have always had a minor obsession with CFA. When I lived in Vegas, the closest CFA was in CA, about 2.5 hours away. Once I moved back to the east coast where CFA's are around every corner, I felt the need to make up for lost time. I do believe that I had CFA for at least 2 meals a day for the first month I was back in MD. I'm not exaggerating either - just ask my mother. (I was also 20 lbs heavier then. I wonder why?)

Normally, I try not to indulge in fast food. But if I must, I always find myself at CFA. I try to get just chicken since protein is the healthiest thing there, but every now and then I go for the fries or hash browns. I just can't help myself!

A coworker of mine received an extra chicken biscuit on her drive through experience at CFA today and kindly offered it to me. I found this mighty convenient, seeing as how I ran out the door without eating breakfast. I didn't think I was all that hungry, but before I knew it, the chicken biscuit had disappeared into my tummy. Whoopsies!

I really am a healthy eater - I swear! I think the last time I had CFA (or any fast food, for that matter) was about a month ago. I try to hit CFA only once a month, if that. The rest of the time, it's boring grilled chicken, veggies, and salad.

Sigh.

WHAT am I doing?!

Sometimes I wonder what the heck I'm doing with my life. Do you ever feel that way?

I went to university and got a degree in the only subject area that interested me - biology/chemistry. But of course I don't use it now! In order to use my degree, I'd have to go to grad school. After 4 straight years of classes (full summer sessions included), I just didn't want to do another 2 year program. But now, I have decided to go back to uni for yet another degree.

This time around, I have chosen accounting since you know, I've basically been an accountant for the past 5 years. I think that since I'm paying for the classes this time around, I'll be slightly more motivated to continue further after this program is complete. Hopefully. Fingers crossed.

It will take 4 semesters (possibly 3) to complete my second degree; a 2 semester Master's program will follow immediately after. And then I will sit for a 4 part exam to become a CPA.

Clearly, I have gone insane.

I haven't quite figured out what I want to do after all of this. I mean, I can move anywhere and take the different sections of the CPA exam. California has really been on my mind a lot the past couple of years. It's like the east coast, but warmer - all the time. My only requirements when moving somewhere are warm weather and a beach. Last I checked, CA was the leader of that pack. And conveniently enough, I have both friends AND family in CA. Granted, my mother will freak out on me but that's to be expected. She really shouldn't be surprised by my crazy moves anymore.

Ideally, I'd like to live/work/travel in Europe for at least a year. So I will definitely make an attempt to get a job over there after my accounting degree is complete (hopefully with one of the top 5 accounting firms in the world since they have offices all over). If that works out, great. If it doesn't, then I think I shall move west.

Come 2012, I think I'll need some new challenges...

Silly Bandz!

I have a mild obsession with Silly Bandz. And no, I am not 7. But my niece is! Anytime someone looks at me with a face that says, "Aren't you too old to be wearing silly bandz?" I immediately use Camryn as an excuse. "Oh, these are for my niece." Or, "My niece gave these to me." Why do I feel the need to defend myself to these people? I have no idea. I love silly bandz! And they're highly entertaining during boring meetings. Some days I forget which ones I threw on so it's like a guessing game that keeps me occupied through boring lectures.

My favorite silly band thus far (aside from the giraffe, obviously) is the hedgehog.



How can you not love that adorable fella?!

I was on the official SB website the other day, and I found a "beach" set. Apparently, these are UV activated! I must obtain a set stat.

What will they think of next?!

To Kill a Mockingbird

I am ashamed to admit that I have never read To Kill a Mockingbird.



Even my friends who despise reading claim to have read this novel and loved it. Granted, it was required reading in high school but they still read it nonetheless. How was this book not assigned for my required reading?! Oh, that's right - I had idiot teachers who liked to make their students suffer by reading Grendel and Beowulf. You know, books that we gain nothing from and will never ever need to reference ever again!

At the urging of one of my lawyer friends, I finally borrowed this book from the library. It is a super easy read - it offers a nice respite from the work day during my lunch break. I actually just started this book yesterday and am already half way through it (yes, I'm a fast reader). I fully intend to have this finished in a couple of days after a few porch sitting sessions.

While I'm not all that impressed yet with this novel, I'm hoping that the time will come. As I mentioned before, many people have said that this is one of their favorite books of all time. Seeing as how I read far more than they do, I doubt it will become one of my favorites of all time. Maybe one of my favorite classic novels, but not of all time. That's just crazy talk!

Upon further researching the author of this novel, Harper Lee, I discovered that she helped Truman Capote conduct some research for one of his novels, In Cold Blood (which is also on my "to read" list). I guess really will read about anything, won't I!?

Having missed out on this piece of classic literature is making me wonder what other popular works I have skipped over in my lifetime. If you have any suggestions, feel free to send them my way - I'm always up for a good read!

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UPDATE:

I have finally completed this novel. As I neared the end, it was a little harder for me to get through. Probably because I kept putting it down in the middle of Atticus's trial and then when I picked the book back up the next day, I'd forget what I had read the day before. Such is life. (Well, such is my life.)

I wasn't as impressed with this book as everyone else was. I do feel, however, that this is a great book to assign to high schoolers for summer reading. It teaches great lessons about equality and honesty. If I had read this book 15 years ago, it probably would have made it onto my "favorites" list. These days, the book just isn't challenging enough for an old brain like mine.

Cruel Intentions

One of my all time favorite movies from the late 90's/early 2000's is Cruel Intentions. This movie stars Ryan Phillippe, Sara Michelle Gellar, and Reese Witherspoon.



At the time that this movie was made, most of the actors were fairly unknown. Well, except for maybe SMG as she was on WB's Buffy, the Vampire Slayer which Megan forced me to watch almost daily while in college...

I saw this movie once in high school and didn't watch it again until I came to college. I started dating this guy the summer between my freshman and sophomore years and we watched this movie almost weekly. We were on and off for 3 years and this movie was a constant during whatever our relationship was. I think the DVD wore out its welcome during that relationship because I have only watched it maybe 3 times since graduation. If the movie is on TV, however, I must stop all that I am doing to watch it. I don't know what the appeal is for me - the scandal in the movie or the time in my life during which I fell in love with the story. Regardless, it's nice to escape the real world that is my life, even if only for a couple of hours.

After seeing this movie for the 100th time, I found out that in real life, Reese had actually been pregnant with Ryan's child during filming. (Of course, by the time this information was brought to my attention, they were already married with another child on the way.) In some scenes, you can definitely tell that she's a little heavier than in others. I wonder if that's why she was in a one piece bathing suit during the pool scene?

At the end of the movie, Reese Witherspoon's character is driving Ryan Phillippe's character's old roadster and "Bittersweet Symphony" (performed by The Verve) is playing. Every time I hear this song, regardless of place and time, I'm always taken back to that scene. I like to pretend that it's me driving an old convertible through the French countryside.

Sure, call me a dork. But one day when it happens, you'll be begging for a ride!

shake the glitter off your... boots?

As horrible as this is probably going to sound coming from someone in her late 20's, I'm going to say it anyways: I love shopping at Forever 21. My friends and I adoringly refer to it as "Forever Til You Wash It" or simply, "XXI."

While I do feel like some of the recent trends are too young for me, there are many pieces I will purchase separately to spice up a dull work outfit. I love the delicate and romantic sleeveless shirts that can be worn under a sweater or jacket from NY&Co. or Banana Republic and paired with a simple pair of khaki pants. I love the tunics that can be worn over a pair of colored tights with a boyfriend jacket and riding boots in the fall/winter months. There are some pieces, however, that really have me questioning the XXI designers and the people who purchase their "designs." Case in point:



Now I have never purchased a pair of shoes from Forever 21 so I cannot speak to how comfortable or resilient they are. While they have had cute pairs that I have longed to purchase, I just couldn't convince myself to bite the bullet. However, I may have to purchase these babies sometime soon:



Anyways, back to the issue at hand: glittery boots. Who in their right mind would purchase those suckers?! And what exactly would they wear them with? I mean, I know what I would pair them up with if I were to purchase them for a theme party outfit or Halloween costume. I also know that there are young girls out there who will willingly pay the 30$ for those boots and wear them out on a regular Friday/Saturday night downtown. I just wonder what skanalicious outfit they have matched with them.

I bet the next time I'm out downtown, I'll see someone in those hideous boots. I will then take a picture and post for all to see, because I know you're wondering the same thing I am: Why?

It really is perfect!

When my sister visited me at the beach in May, she unknowingly left behind her Cover Girl Perfect Blend brown eyeliner. I didn't even discover this little gem laying on my floor until a week after she had left. I decided that since she hadn't called me the next day in a panic, wondering if she had left the pencil at my house, she probably wouldn't mind too much if I kept it for my own use.

Exhibit A:



Upon my return to work on whatever day it was, I decided to use the CG brown eyeliner instead of my normal Sephora brand black eyeliner. I had actually been meaning to get to the store and purchase some brown eyeliner, as I have heard that it makes brown eyes "pop" a bit. Alas, my trip was delayed because I rarely ever use eyeliner other than the Sephora brand (I always have a hefty supply of at least 3 sticks!). Sephora eyeliner has served me well for the past 8+ years and I always feel bad veering away from a trusty friend.

I really am not one to branch out and try new products. The new products I do try are usually recommendations from my sister, as she is a hair/make-up/skin product whore and will try anything new coming onto the market. I love that she does that though because then I know what to try for myself!

Anyways, I'm glad that Jenna left the CG stick at my house because it is honestly the best eyeliner I have ever used! I've been wearing eyeliner since I was 11 years old (don't judge me - it was the grunge era when I started) so I've tested a few different brands. Why I never discovered this particular line of CG is beyond me.

When I called Jenna to tell her about how amazing the eyeliner is that she left behind, her response was, "Yeah, I've been using it since seventh grade - I love it!"

Ummm, hello, how has she kept this secret from me for so long?! We're sisters. We've shared a house, a room, a bathroom, a mirror... how have I not delved into her make up bag and stolen this from her before now?! (Not that I stole it this time, but you get my drift.)

I was telling my friend Cassie this story last weekend and her response was similar: "Oh yeah, I love Cover Girl Perfect Blend. See, I'm using it now! I've used this since I was in middle school."

People - really!?!? You must share these secrets with me!